After yesterdays blog on accountability I was
reminded of some earlier thoughts, adjusted here, that are on the initial
accountability of the original sin that is inclusive of the original blessing.
In the Genesis Record of sin: accountability
not judgment was the focus. Many have missed this wanting to focus on
God's judgment and punishment for the moral failure. But a closer look
results in the open hearted person seeing accountability and compassion. Holding
the persons responsible for something while doing so with a focus to help and
restore the confidence and presence of love and peace.
There are 4 Compassionate
responses all about accountability not punishment:
11. God comes
into the garden the day after their sin.
With Love and pace undisturbed by their actions God strolls into the
garden, calling out to them, “Where are you?” The blessing of God’s abundant
love and abiding peacefulness are unchanged regardless of anything. God
let time lapse, let them feel the loss, and let them try to care for themselves.
While they were in hiding and covering up God was walking in with
compassionate righteousness and creative resolution. God holds responsibility for creating them, for giving
them this garden of free choice, and for placing the tree of the knowledge of
good and evil in the middle of the garden. God is the first to shed
innocent blood on the earth as God creates a covering for them. They have to give up their attempts to
do it on their own and accept this offering of compassion. They are given the
opportunity to choose freely to receive this gift of love and care that reminds
them that no matter what they do, God remains in internal and eternal peace and
in abundant and agenda free love toward them.
12. The pair
are held responsible and accountable for their behavior. They start by excusing and
blaming. “We are naked so we hid”
then “she gave me to eat” then we are trying to take care of it on our own
because of fear and frustration.
God told Adam that he would
hereafter work the soil of the earth and fight the weeds of adversity to remind
him that while God’s love and care is never lost, God offers them that which
would help him to no take for granted what God gives but would through work
toil learn to appreciate better that which costs him something rather than
having it gifted to him as free.
This was a consequence and accountability directly related to his
behavior choice which put ease and comfort ahead of thoughtfulness and
appreciation for what he had and could not lose.
3.
Eve was given a similar,
consequence and accountability, directly related to her not seeing the hurt and
pain of acting against her creative inner force. While in her was the seed of life and love (the mother of
all living things) she took that seed for granted and treated the sacred gift
of choice in a self-serving way.
It caused pain in her heart so as a reminder and an instrument of
helpful appreciation of the seed in her, childbirth that was to be without pain
and work would now be both painful and work. In a parallel way they both were
given “pain and work” for the purpose of appreciating the gifts of life and
nourishment, nurture and nature. They both were given not judgment and condemnation
but accountability and consequences to help them to live more maturely
responsible, mutually respectful, and compassionate righteousness. The response of God was not punitive
and judgmental but responsible and redemptive.
4. Later
they were cast out of the garden.
God said, “now what shall we do, they now know good and evil, if we let
them stay in the garden and they eat of the tree of eternal life they will live
forever in this state of eternal frustration so we must cast them out of the
garden in and act of creative, courageous, compassionate and from a calm place
to protect them from themselves.
This was not punishment but protective intervention so the parts of them
that knew good and evil but did not know how to love and care for both the good
and evil in non-reactive, non-restraining ways.
Humanity has a curse of condemning and condoning polarity which
perpetuates: self-negation,
self-effacement, self-deprecation, and self-aggrandizement. The Divine offers a blessing of love
and care of all parts without condemnation or condoning but offering compassion
and care to all which perpetuates: Self-affirmation, self-confidence,
self-healing, and self-resiliency.
Accountability and consequences help people to see what they did not
see, or were not aware of. Then in the presence of this accountability and healthy realization,the system self-corrects. Trying to correct through punishment and deterrents only
serve to promote frustration and fragmentation in the system. Not holding accountable condones and promotes irresponsibility and confusion.
Proverbially finger pointing creates the point counter point culture in
which the only point that is made is hurtful, painful and unhelpful. The counter balance, that accepts
shared responsibility and shared respectfulness, calls for the maturity of
character. The character of integrity maintains internal peace and love and then offers that peace in
love in relationships to the outer or external world.
A judgment free zone is not an invitation to keep on doing the same
thing but the sacred space, with courage and creative resolve, to experience
and express the resolve and resiliency of Peace and Love.
Not holding people of any age accountable for their actions is to
condone those actions. Punishing
the person for the actions as an act of condemnation does not deter actions but
perpetuates resistance and defiance so the behavior continues.
Meeting any person with compassion and concern, mutual responsibility,
measures of accountability and mutual respectfulness provide the sacred space
for inner change.
Back to the football player: If the young man knew there were not exceptions and if he took money or
benefits from anyone he would never be allowed to play football then watch the
behavior change. The problem is
society wants the football player to provide entertainment and that is more
important than integrity or honesty.
Only when money and greed will take a back seat to integrity and accountability
will change occur. Only when the
education of the student at the university is in the front seat, driving the
car, will change occur.
It is not the young man but the system that invited the young man to do
what he does that is the problem. The
solution is in the system. Every part and member of the system must be accountable
to the system itself with internal integrity and compassion.
That is what God modeled there in Genesis three. It has been awhile and we are still trying to get it?